How's your November going? Ours is...
The other day we witnessed this interaction:
Person A was feeling really low. They had the sense that they were on the outs with their group and no one liked them. They saw evidence of this everywhere and just wanted to give up and run away to find some other friends.
Person B explained that none of this was true, and that this was not a healthy way to think. They said this person needed to relax, and forget about these concerns.
Person A could tell that their friend didn't agree with their position and wanted him to stop talking about it. So he put on a brave face and said things like: "You're right." and "Ok man, I see where you're coming from."
When B walked away A realized that there were even fewer people he could talk to about this. His loneliness was even higher than before.
How would you do in this scenario?
Would your friend feel better or worse?
When it comes down to it, how good are you at supporting others? And specifically, do you know your support strengths?
If you're wondering, maybe you want to take our Emotional Support Aptitude Test!
This is a quick, eye-opening assessment designed to help you understand your emotional support skills and show you the way to even stronger, healthier connections. This test is Level 1 of our Supporting Others Series and your first step toward becoming a deeply attuned, emotionally intelligent leader in your life and relationships.
Why Take the Emotional Support Aptitude Test?
Assess Your Emotional Support Skills: Do you know how to help someone navigate tough feelings? Which feelings are more difficult for you to support? This test will show you where you shine and where you can improve.
Understand the Impact You Have on Others: Emotional Support Isn't just about being present – it's about knowing how to respond in ways that help, rather than hinder. Get insights into how you offer support and where you might want to adjust.
Level Up Your Relationships: Whether you're a therapist, coach, parent, friend, partner, or leader, knowing how to effectively support others emotionally can dramatically deepen connection and trust.
This test is built for anyone who feels called to strengthen their impact, develop lasting connections, and understand the finer points of emotional support.
About the Supporting Others Pathway
Our six levels, beginning with the Emotional Support Aptitude Test, are designed to develop and transform how you handle upset, offer support, and connect meaningfully with others. For those who feel called to grow and make a difference, this pathway opens the door to deeper acumen and a stronger sense of self.
We can’t wait to see what you’ll discover about yourself!
Much love and many blessings to you and all those you support,
Natalie and Nathan
P.S. Know someone who would benefit from exploring their emotional support skills? Share this invitation with a friend and you can make the journey together!